JourneywomanTreat em mean, keep em keen
March 5th 2008 06:52
This old adage contains a vast amount of truth when it comes to courting, dating and relationships – i.e. hooking up - but you can’t take it too far. Don’t take treating em mean literally, after all that would just make you a jerk; just make sure that you are being a challenge to your target/partner and aren’t making yourself too available. In the early stages of flirting, pre-hookup, you need to come across as a rarity. Don’t keep conversations going forever and don’t ditch your friends and hobbies the second you get together with someone. When you’re in a relationship this is even more important, as you must have a life away from your partner. If you are together for every single minute of every single day, the relationship will go south quickly as you begin to take each other for granted.
The idea of being a challenge is a popular one on the net, and with good reason as it really helps to keep things interesting. Most people love a challenge, as it’s a step away from the everyday, and if you can challenge your partner regularly she’ll really enjoy the time she spends with you. As for making yourself scarce, it’s natural for us to think that something of rarity is something of value. If you don’t leave her alone, how will she ever miss you?
Not mean... but definitely a challenge
The idea of being a challenge is a popular one on the net, and with good reason as it really helps to keep things interesting. Most people love a challenge, as it’s a step away from the everyday, and if you can challenge your partner regularly she’ll really enjoy the time she spends with you. As for making yourself scarce, it’s natural for us to think that something of rarity is something of value. If you don’t leave her alone, how will she ever miss you?
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