JourneywomanIs she into you? How to tell from her body language
January 31st 2008 03:46
So you’re not sure if she’s into you? There are so many nonverbal body language cues from women you can pick up on, it just takes practice in learning how to recognise them. As a woman, I’ll let you in on a secret: sometimes we are entirely aware of what body language we are using. It’s not always a subconscious thing. If we are into you, we will usually be quite obvious about it, without having to say a word. As a man, you need to learn what certain body language cues mean, so here are five ways Aussie chicks use body language to convey their interest.
1) When she first sees you, she raises her eyebrows. According to body language experts, this means that she likes what she sees, or is at least curious. This is one body language message that is hard to fake.
2) She keeps glancing over. If she’s into you, she’ll be interested in what you’re doing, who you’re talking to and so on, so if you find her continually glancing in your direction – and looking away coyly when you make eye contact – you can be pretty sure she’s into you.
3) She plays with her hair or jewellery. This is a subtle preening action, meaning that she wants to look good for you. Another popular preening item is lip gloss; if you find her brazenly applying it in your presence it’s a good sign she’s trying to attract you. Fidgeting with things is a sign of nerves in a woman, but then it can also be a sign of boredom, but you’ll quickly learn to distinguish the two.
4) She smiles – a lot. Studies have shown that people rate a smiling person as being more attractive than someone who’s not, this is simply a natural reaction as happy people are more appealing. She may be doing it to show off her fun side, in order to gain your interest.
5) She shows off the inside of her wrist. Body language experts say that if the inner wrist is exposed, it’s like the woman is showing off her delicate, vulnerable side. Most women would keep their palms down and wrists hidden when with people they weren’t attracted to.
If you’ve spotted at least three of the above body language cues, you can be pretty sure that the girl you want is into you, too, but remember the importance of conversation as well. Body language should really be used as a starting-off point from which verbal communication can begin. The more you know about it, the more you’ll see it in your everyday life, and your ability to read body language will improve dramatically.
1) When she first sees you, she raises her eyebrows. According to body language experts, this means that she likes what she sees, or is at least curious. This is one body language message that is hard to fake.
2) She keeps glancing over. If she’s into you, she’ll be interested in what you’re doing, who you’re talking to and so on, so if you find her continually glancing in your direction – and looking away coyly when you make eye contact – you can be pretty sure she’s into you.
A smile is a good sign
3) She plays with her hair or jewellery. This is a subtle preening action, meaning that she wants to look good for you. Another popular preening item is lip gloss; if you find her brazenly applying it in your presence it’s a good sign she’s trying to attract you. Fidgeting with things is a sign of nerves in a woman, but then it can also be a sign of boredom, but you’ll quickly learn to distinguish the two.
4) She smiles – a lot. Studies have shown that people rate a smiling person as being more attractive than someone who’s not, this is simply a natural reaction as happy people are more appealing. She may be doing it to show off her fun side, in order to gain your interest.
5) She shows off the inside of her wrist. Body language experts say that if the inner wrist is exposed, it’s like the woman is showing off her delicate, vulnerable side. Most women would keep their palms down and wrists hidden when with people they weren’t attracted to.
If you’ve spotted at least three of the above body language cues, you can be pretty sure that the girl you want is into you, too, but remember the importance of conversation as well. Body language should really be used as a starting-off point from which verbal communication can begin. The more you know about it, the more you’ll see it in your everyday life, and your ability to read body language will improve dramatically.
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